Empower Blog

Defining “Empower” or “Empowerment” is a subjective, personal, and emotional endeavor. Now that I’m in my 30’s, a wife and mother of two (soon to be 3), I realize that being “empowered” has meant something different throughout the various stages of my life. Today my priorities are my family, my health, and the health of my loved ones. At this moment in time feeling empowered encompasses the following elements:

• Embracing the constant change and unpredictability of daily life
• Being physically strong and fit to handle the daily demands and stresses
• Confidence in my abilities, my intelligence, my judgment for my own direction
• Faith in my decisions for my children, their development, and their futures
• A solid, positive self-image for my personal happiness, my marriage, and to set a positive example for my children
• The freedom to help others by supporting the charities and organizations close to my heart
• The knowledge to find the outlets necessary to give me peace of mind and mental clarity for true happiness in all aspects of my life.

Let me be clear that defining and identifying “My Empowerment” doesn’t guarantee that I’m always on target with all of these elements on a daily basis. Empowerment in my life is a constant journey as is maintaining a healthy lifestyle. There are days or weeks that I’m more balanced and focused. Then there are times that a hectic lifestyle seems to take over.

I’m learning that feeling empowered in my own life is not a matter of success or failure but rather a positive journey of change and growth that will never stop! Get on board and enjoy the ride!

By: Karen Polcaro

At Empower, our goal is to help you become an ACTIVE, HEALTHY, and STRONG woman. To us, becoming active, healthy, and strong does not only refer to becoming physically fit, it also ties into every other aspect of your life, physical, mental, and emotional. To be ACTIVE, HEALTHY, and STRONG is to be EMPOWERED!!

Although as women we stand together, we recognize that each of us is very unique and have different needs. We are at various stages in our lives. We each face unique challenges, whether they are related to family, career, life in general, or a combination of everything! That is why we have carefully selected four amazing women; all seasoned fitness professionals who come from different backgrounds and are at different stages in their own lives. Gin Miller, Heather Hawk, Kathy Stevens, and Rachel Howe will be writing to provide answers to your questions, offer advice, and share their experiences.

However, we thought it was important that before they began sharing their experiences and ideas, that they each define what it means to them to be EMPOWERED.

Over the couple weeks, each of these women share with us what empowerment means to them. Also, check out some of the questions they will be answering (below). These questions came from women JUST LIKE YOU! If you have a question or a topic you would like to explore, please share! We can all learn and grow from the experiences of others! Your voice is important and you deserve to be heard!!!

1. How do I find the time to add exercise into my schedule and what type of exercise is best?
2. What are the best options for eating healthy meals with such a busy schedule?
3. How do I get rid of my meno-pot!... The dreaded 50+ potbelly.
4. What can I do to reduce the pain in my (back, legs, arms, etc) while exercising?
5. Can I ever get rid of the sagging skin on my (belly, back of the arms, neck or thighs)?
6. Which exercises are best for burning fat?
7. Which exercises will strengthen my back/core?
8. How do you get started if you have been inactive for many years?
9. How do you stay motivated about your exercise program?

By Heather Hawk

Everyone has different motivational tools and triggers to keep them on track. Some people need accountability to stay consistent. The consistency has never been my obstacle. My challenge is to push myself beyond my threshold whether it’s get those few extra reps or for the extra mile. Over the years I’ve tried several things to help give me an edge. Here are a few of the tricks that motivate me to kick it up a notch:

• Download music that will pump you up. A mix of up-beat and slow doesn’t do it for me, I need songs that we keep me jamming.
• Talk yourself through the tough spots. When I feel I’ve reached a breaking point I remind myself of my goals (sometimes in my head and sometimes out loud) like a lean body or a tight booty – I repeat it over and over to push through the challenge.
• Find a workout partner (or a few). The key is to find a partner that will motivate you as much as you motivate them – you want to push each other rather then holding one another back.
• Remind yourself of the level you’ve achieved in prior workouts. When I find it difficult to hit a prior distance or number of reps I remind myself that I did before so I can do it again – quitting is not an option!

By Heather Hawk

We all know that finding time for fitness can be a challenge.

Whether it’s work, family, or school we all have life pulling us in several directions. Having my own company provides me the luxury of working from home a few days a week so squeezing in a workout early morning or mid-day is usually convenient. Lately, my work has had me on location most weekdays. By the time I get home I want to spend all the time I can with mygirls before their bedtime.

I was finding myself stressing out over when to fit in my workout. So I decided to combine the two activities and I’m using my playtime with my girls to be as physical as possible. My oldest, who is three, loves to crawl over and under furniture, jump, run, and climb through the jungle-gym at the park. Instead of simply cheering her on from the sidelines, I’m now right by her for all her fun and exploration.

You’d be amazedhow exhausting it can be keeping up with a three year old…I know I’m working up a sweat, burning calories, and using my muscles in very different ways.